Thursday, January 21, 2010

Big!!!!!


NOTE:  I have decided to use this blog as an avenue for my venting sessions.  Please don't judge and don't expect perfect grammar.  Editing it will ruin the therapy session.

So I have to admit I have been out of touch for the last couple of days so I have spent the last hour or so reading the news sources online to see if the world has come to an end.  And of course I spent sometime reading the entertainment aka gossip sites and I got angry.  When reputable sources post that a women is Big that makes me angry.

I am sorry but Christina Hendricks is Not big.  Yes I'll admit the color is not the best color choice but by no means is she "big".  Yes she has a big rack but she is not big.

In a society where women are always striving try to fit into the ideal mold our media sets us back ages.  I am a big girl.  I am over 6 feet tall and do not fit into the recommended weight category but you know what I am happy with were I am at.  I am working to drop my divorce weight.  But my height is something I can't change.  I have embraced it.  I wear heals, not just kitten heals but full fledged 4 inch heals, heals that cause my friends to stand on chairs to give me a hug.

I realize that my height will indimiate people but my height, my weight, the way I look is apart of me and if you can't accept that; move on.


P.S.  Just because I am tall does not mean I played basketball and that does not give you free reign to ask "Your so tall why do you wear heals"  I will ask you why you wear sneakers when you are so short.

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